絵に描いたような美男美女なら「お似合い」だと言われるのに、“美女と野獣” や逆バージョンのカップルは、「金が目当てだろ」とか色々と言われてしまいがちである。

そんな、超ムキムキ&イケメンな夫を持つマシュマロ体型の妻がSNSで中傷されたにもかかわらず、素晴らしいメッセージを発信して話題になっている。「こんな女性なら、素敵な旦那様に愛されるのも当然!」と思えてしまうような切り返しなので、紹介することにしたい。

・超イケメンな夫とラブラブなマシュマロ妻

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Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch. I’ll be honest that I was taken aback. ✨ Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him. 🙋🏼 This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match. 🙌🏻 So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!) ✨ I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size. Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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SNSで注目を浴びているマシュマロ体型の女性は、ウェディング・フォトグラファーとして活躍するジェナ・カッチャーさんだ。

彼女のInstagramにはキレイに腹筋が6つに割れた、超イケメンな夫ドリューさんとのラブラブ写真が一杯! 確かに彼女は夫とは対照的な体型だが、“肥満” とか “デブ” といったネガティブな表現は当てはまらず、どちらかというと「グラマーで豊満」などの言葉がしっくり来る感じである。

・やっかみや中傷をSNSに書かれてしまうことも……

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THE REALITY OF GOING VIRAL: We’ve spent the last few days gawking at the fact that society believes that seeing two people (who happen to have different body types) in love is newsworthy, and yet we are embracing it whole heartedly because it means that we get to share our message with YOU, with the world. 〜 We are not our bodies. I am not defined by titles like “curvy” or plus size, Drew is not defined by “Mr. Six Pack.” At the end of the day, we are the girl and the guy who fell in love and started dating in college after @kickingitwithkutch lost a bet that led to a first kiss - the rest is history. 〜 Our story is has held ups and down, light and loss and we’ve chosen to show up and turn the mess into our message. Because we believe the world is hungry for REAL and going viral has proven that. 〜 Here we are: Jenna and Drew, a small town couple who are as normal as they come and more in love today than the day they said “I do.” You might have met us because of our bodies but I pray you fall in love with our hearts and souls and stick around awhile. Will you? 〜 Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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そして、カッコいい旦那様とハワイのビーチでたわむれる写真など、二人が愛し合っている感じがビシバシと伝わってきて、なんとも微笑ましいではないか。

ところが、「なんで彼女みたいな人が、こんなにイケメンの夫をゲット出来たの!?」といった、やっかみや中傷と書き込むネットユーザーが少なくないのだという。

・マシュマロ妻の切り返しが素敵!

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He said, “Today I learned that starting a family isn’t going to be an easy journey for us.” I laid there in silence and closed my eyes. 🌊 Yesterday I cried at the pool. Tears snuck beneath my sunglasses as I realized that sometimes this journey straight up sucks. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I had this grand plan that once again, Hawaii would be our redemption song and as the reality of that dream slipped through my finger tips, I realized that I had tricked myself into believing that I could write a better story than my creator. ✨ It’s like I took a to-do list, crossed each item off and then handed the final to-do over to God and told him how I wanted this whole thing to go. I was ready to turn the page and write our next chapter! ✋🏻 I was reminded to surrender, to be able to ask for prayers, and to keep the hope that our time is coming soon. I’m believing in our miracle and this feed is my legacy. 🌊 Someday I hope our kids can read these posts and see this chapter in our story, this season of waiting was filled with faith, and that they had been prayed for and hoped for by thousands of strangers on the internet. ✨ We will keep waiting. Will you keep praying? Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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そこで彼女は、そんなネガティブなコメントを書き込む人々に向かって、次のようなメッセージを発信したのだ。その内容をまとめたものが以下である。

「私のお尻は大きくて腕も太腿も太いけど、それ以上の私を夫は愛してくれるし、その全てを受け入れてくれる男性を私は選んだの。私は夫と同じように体型以上の存在であって、それは誰にも言えることだわ。真実の愛に体のサイズが関係ないと思うなら、“いいね” してね」

と綴っているのだ。文句のつけようがないほど素晴らしい切り返しである。きっと夫のドリューさんは、そんな彼女の美しい内面にも心惹かれたからこそ、恋に落ちたのではないだろうか。

英語には、「Beauty is in the eye of the beholder:美は見る人次第」という諺(ことわざ)があるのだが、この言葉もジェナさんに中傷を浴びせるネットユーザーに贈りたいと思う。

参照元:Instagram @jennakutcher
執筆:Nekolas

▼映画のワンシーンみたい!

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Two years ago our fertility journey started on this island. Our lives changed the moment we saw the word “pregnant” on a test. Drew stayed up late reading books about becoming a dad, and I happily cut margaritas from my diet. We had no clue that the next 2 years would be filled with heartache, hope, and many pivots to our plan. ✨ The second time, I was certain it’d be different, ready for our redemption song. We found out in Hawaii and this time we were ready... except it again, ended with loss. Looking back, I can see God’s hand in the heartache. We were forced to grieve as a couple, forced into learning how to heal my body, forced towards empathy for those struggling in silence, forced to live life not for what was missing but for what we have. ✨ Sometimes you walk through storms and you can only see what’s in front of you. It likely feels impossible, hard, broken, scary and you’re wondering how the world keeps turning while you’re stuck. ✨ Today I want to remind you that the storms you are walking through are changing you in ways you didn’t know you could be changed and giving you perspective so that when the sun starts shining again, the light will shine through all your cracks of brokenness. Someday you’ll look back on these days and realize just how strong you really are. ✨ Tag the strongest people you know below. We are all walking through storms, mostly silently. Though our paths may not be the same, we can walk in tandem toward the light. #ihadamiscarriage #kutchersinkihei ✨ Photo: @mrslindseyroman Glam: @meiliautumnbeauty Van: @thereclassiccampers

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▼超ラブラブな二人

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She asked me what I wanted to remember about this time, I told her, “Life doesn’t look how we thought it would, how we pictured it but in the brokenness there is far more light than we could have imagined.” 🌸 It’s easy to look at what’s missing in your life: the relationship, the baby, the perfect body, the dream job, the security... you name it, you’re likely missing something. ✨ But sometimes when you pause to look at the brilliance, the good, the possibility, the hope, that space doesn’t feel so empty, the dream doesn’t feel so distant, and the reality of the moment you’re hanging out in is brighter than ever. 🥂 Life isn’t exactly what we planned but there’s a God who has seen my plans and laughed because he had SO much more for me and the same goes for you. 🙋🏼 Photo by: @mrslindseyroman Glam by: @meiliautumnbeauty

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▼こんなにカッコいい旦那様がいて羨ましい~!